In the recent movie that we watched in my Race, Gender and the Media class we discussed how gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgenders are portrayed in the media. For many decades, the media have slowly started to incorporate GLBT’s more. In the movie, one of the main points they brought up was that Americans are slowly becoming blind to the way the media has incorporated gays into television series, movies, and advertising.
Because media have portrayed gays in a certain light, many Americans have used these depictions to stereotype gays. One example is in Sex and the City. Stanford Blatch and Anthony Marantino are two gay men on the show. The series depicts these two characters as flamboyant, stylish, and out with their sexuality. I would like to argue that most gay men in America are neither flamboyant or out with their sexuality.
For years, Americans have been against gays and lesbians because of their sexuality, but one must remember that this wasn’t their choice. I believe it is because American’s don’t understand that being gay isn’t by choice, is one of the main reasons why many Americans discriminate against them. Straight Americans cannot truly understand what it is like to be gay in the society, and because the media portrays gays in a poor light, it is understandable that many straights are against gays and lesbians.
But I do believe the media are trying to put a better light on lesbians and gays. One example is in show Grey’s Anatomy. Callie Torres and Arizona Robbins are two lesbians on the show. Throughout the series, the audience is introduced to their fling and watch it slowly turn into an ongoing romance where Torres invites Robbins’ to move in with her. Just in this example, we can see that the media are trying to introduce to the audiences that gays and lesbians can live together, and everything is not going to turn into chaos.
It is because the media have put this spin and shed some light onto the subject of gays and lesbians, that Americans will slowly learn to accept these people’s decision and respect them for it. It is said that people learn most of what they know from watching television, if the media continue to portray GLBT’s in a very good light, then thing’s will turn around for them.
In my opinion, I believe that no matter what your sexuality may be, that we all must be treated equally and depicted with respect through the media. Just because your sexuality may not be what the majority thinks is right, doesn't mean it is truly wrong.